Sunday, December 16, 2018



Accept the Unresolvables

By Dr. James Dobson

Some wives will discover that they are married to a mate who will never be able to fully express himself or understand the needs that I have described. His emotional structure makes it impossible for him to comprehend the feelings and frustrations of another—particularly those occurring in the opposite sex. This husband will not read a book such as this and would probably resent it if he did. He has never been required to "give" and has no idea how it is done. What, then, is to be the reaction of his wife? What will you do if your husband lacks the insight to be what you need him to be?
My advice is that you change what can be altered, explain that which can be understood, teach that which can be learned, revise that which can be improved, resolve that which can be settled, and negotiate that which is open to compromise. Create the best marriage possible from the raw materials brought by two imperfect human beings with two distinctly unique personalities. But for all the rough edges that can never be smoothed and the faults that can never be eradicated, try to develop the best possible perspective and determine in your mind to accept reality exactly as it is. The first principle of mental health is to accept that which cannot be changed. You could easily go to pieces over adverse circumstances that are beyond your control. You can determine to hang tough, or you can yield to cowardice. Depression is often evidence of emotional surrender.
Someone wrote:
Life can't give me joy and peace; 
it's up to me to will it.
Life just gives me time and space,
it's up to me to fill it.
Can you accept the fact that your husband will never be able to meet all your needs and aspirations? Seldom does one human being satisfy every longing and hope in another. Obviously, this coin has two sides: You can't be his perfect woman either. He is no more equipped to resolve your entire package of emotional needs than you are to become his sexual dream machine every twenty-four hours. Both partners have to settle for human foibles and faults and irritability and fatigue and occasional nighttime "headaches." A good marriage is not one in which perfection reigns; it is a relationship in which a healthy perspective overlooks a multitude of unresolvables. Thank goodness my wife, Shirley, has adopted this attitude toward me!
Action Steps for Seeking to Understand
• In what ways do you and your partner communicate well? In what ways do you struggle? Talk about how you both can compromise in order to improve communication in your marriage.
• Are you the victim of any "marriage misconceptions"? How has this affected your relationship with your spouse, and what can you do about it?
• Have you taken a long look at any communication difficulties in your marriage from your mate's point of view? Decide what you can do on your own to improve your situation—and if there are some realities that must be accepted as they are.

Leaked Memo Exposes Global Plan To Create “Untraceable” Fake News War Machine


An anonymous group has just exposed a global misinformation campaign like no other.  They revealed how this state-sponsored attack has learned from all that is happening in social media and even Wiki-Pedia on how to craft the perfect “untraceable” fake news war machine attack! 
The terrifying part is that they have operatives in our own Country and have already published over 1000 articles (that we know of) that are plain and simply targeted misinformation attacks.  The best real-world example of what this attack would look like exists within in our own borders.  When you hear the details of all involved you will question everything you have heard and know who the good guys and bad guys really are:  that line is now permanently blurred.

Pastor Begley: “Super Blood Moon” Over Washington DC


Super Blood Moon Event Coming January 20, 2019 Over Washington DC

“The torment will be no more!”

A spirit of fear with its torment and lies has stolen so much breakthrough from many of God’s people.
Fear has lifted up false images of what “could be” or “what is to come” and fear has changed the view of the landscape ahead but it’s FALSE. It’s FOGGY! It’s a LIE!
I see the Lion of Judah roaring over them that is releasing a strength and awakening of faith to partner with God’s Word and promises more than ever before. There is a DOUBLE RESTORATION being released for all that was stolen.
The landscape before you is filled with increase, promise, joy in Christ, boldness, mountain-moving faith, refreshment and the deepest rest in faith you have EVER known!!
I hear in His roar, “THE TORMENT WILL BE NO MORE!!!”
Do not despair over what fear stole, NOW the Spirit of God is awakening you to an increase of faith – ferocious faith that will CHASE the enemy away. He will run in fear as you submit to God and His Word even more ferociously (James 4:7-9) and you will see DOUBLE restoration and recompense come to you for all that was stolen!
Lana Vawser

Author: Lana Vawser

Lana Vawser grew up in the Sutherland Shire, in NSW, Australia. She began her relationship with Christ in 1996, soon after which, she started to understand and grow in her prophetic gifting both to individuals and the greater body of Christ. Since then she has ministered in various roles in local churches, while posting prophetic messages through email lists or online. From 2014, Lana has been featured regularly on The Elijah List, The Australian Prophetic Council, and later Charisma Magazine.
Lana has a heart to encourage the body of Christ and individuals in their walks with Jesus; deeper intimacy with Him; and learning to hear His voice. Lana operates in the prophetic and loves to share the heart of God with others. In 2009, Lana wrote her first book titled “Desperately Deep – Developing Deep Devotion and Dialogue with Jesus”. She is a gifted prophet and teacher, and loves to see others grow in all that God has for them. She has her own blog site at Lana Vawser Ministries. She also has a Facebook page.
Lana has completed her Bachelor of Ministry through Tabor College, Sydney; and now resides in the Gold Coast Hinterlands, Queensland.

Ross Perot Accurately Predicted the America We Live In

Twenty six years ago, Presidential candidate, Ross Perot , accurately predicted the America we would be living n today. This is a fascinating story.